Happiness

Happy are those who dreams and are ready to pay the price to make it happen. I mean like God doesn't throw a worm into a bird's nest, the bird needs to work for it. Like man, don't say theres no one out there for you, just stop thinkin bout it and go out look for someone, you can't find sum1 while sittin on your chair, using the pc  hopin someone will love you for no darn reason. THo, it doesn't mean you can't find true love on the net either. If you like someone speak up, don't be a coward, i mean what's the worst thing that could happen? she says no? what will u do? crumble? pftt, lame..

Ok, so I was typing this as a facebook status, and I dunno, it got too long to let me use it. I was even actually gonna make it longer while typing but then I was trying make it shorter so I could use it, but eh, couldn't, so I thought, why not put it in a blog ? :D

For today, I'm going to talk about happiness. Well, if you think about it what IS happiness? Well, these are some of the most talked about issues when we speak of happiness:

1.) MONEY

First, Watch, Enjoy and Understand this:

Here's the lyrics in case you wanna sing along? lol or maybe just to be able to see what it really says. Lyrics are beautiful :D

Okay, Coconut man, Moon Heads and Pea 
You ready 

Seems like everybody's got a price, 
I wonder how they sleep at night. 
When the sale comes first, 
And the truth comes second, 
Just stop, for a minute and 
Smile 

Why is everybody so serious 
Acting so damn mysterious 
Got your shades on your eyes 
And your heels so high 
That you can't even have a good time 

Everybody look to their left (yeah) 
Everybody look to their right (ha) 
Can you feel that (yeah) 
We're paying with love tonight 
It's not about the money, money, money 
We don't need your money, money, money 
We just wanna make the world dance, 
Forget about the Price Tag 
Ain't about the (uh) Cha-Ching Cha-Ching. 
Aint about the (yeah) Ba-Bling Ba-Bling 
Wanna make the world dance, 
Forget about the Price Tag. 

Okay! 
We need to take it back in time, 
When music made us all unite 
And it wasn't low blows and video hoes, 
Am I the only one getting tired 
Why is everybody so obsessed 
Money can't buy us happiness 
Can we all slow down and enjoy right now 
Guarantee we'll be feeling Alright. 

Everybody look to their left (yeah) 
Everybody look to their right (ha) 
Can you feel that (yeah) 
We're paying with love tonight 
It's not about the money, money, money 
We don't need your money, money, money 
We just wanna make the world dance, 
Forget about the Price Tag 
Ain't about the (uh) Cha-Ching Cha-Ching. 

Aint about the (yeah) Ba-Bling Ba-Bling 
Wanna make the world dance, 
Forget about the Price Tag. 

[B.o.B] 
Yeah yeah 
Well, keep the price tag 
And take the cash back 
Just give me six strings and a half stACK. 
And you can keep the cars 
Leave me the garage 
And all I.. 
Yes all I need are keys and guitars 
And its with in 30 seconds I'm leaving to Mars 
Yeah we leaping across these undefeatable odds 
Its like this man, you can't put a price on the life 
We do this for the love so we fight and sacrifice everynight 
So we aint gon stumble and fall never 
Waiting to see this in the sign of defeat uh uh 
So we gon keep everyone moving their feet 
So bring back the beat and then everyone sing 

It's not about the money, money, money 
We don't need your money, money, money 
We just wanna make the world dance, 
Forget about the Price Tag 
Ain't about the (uh) Cha-Ching Cha-Ching. 
Aint about the (yeah) Ba-Bling Ba-Bling 
Wanna make the world dance, 
Forget about the Price Tag. 

It's not about the money, money, money 
We don't need your money, money, money 
We just wanna make the world dance, 
Forget about the Price Tag 
Ain't about the (uh) Cha-Ching Cha-Ching. 
Aint about the (yeah) Ba-Bling Ba-Bling 
Wanna make the world dance, 
Forget about the Price Tag. 

[Jessie J -Outro] 
Yeah, yeah 
Oo-oooh 
Forget about the price tag.

Lyrics from : metrolyrics

People nowadays, don't tell me you don't see,, are getting more materialistic, sometimes it seems like its all about the $$$ which is absolutely devastating, when life is not only about the money. I know you all see that there are a lot of people who marry someone cause of how much money they have. If you haven't,  maybe, just maybe you need to open you're eyes a little bit, see how the world is changing every second of everyday. 

People say, they're happy if they have money, since you could buy everything you want, thus instant happiness! Isn't it one of the main reasons why maybe your parents are abroad, working for a bigger salary? or maybe why some couples are arguing, cause of maybe budgeting, she's spending too much? he's spending too much? If you're the type of person who puts work before everything, wake up caaall!! what your family needs is you, it may be about money at times, but at the end of the day, maybe you need to check if you could still spend time with them, and I mean real bonding. If you ain't go cancel a schedule or two and take them out to lunch or something.. 

2.)LOOKS

I don't even have to explain this, I'm sure there are a ton of people out there who only likes someone because of looks. Is this really what's important? I mean come on, some guys only care about popularity that there are now trophy wives. Don't get me wrong though, there are also women who only date a guys cause of his looks, but once she finds someone better looking, she goes after him, leavin the other one in a split second. Once again, is this what happiness is? You could love the ugliest person in the world and be the happiest person living, so if happiness when loving someone is about looks then I don't even know if there is such a thing as love. 

As you can see, I've talked about happiness with the two biggest factors why sometimes someone dates another, or marry in some cases. Most of the other factors are sub-branched  in these two things. I don't mean to be mean, in a way, to people who are only looking at these two things, but I'm just sayin how lame it is to like someone cause of that. What ever happened to loving someone for who they are inside? I'm pretty sure there are still some people out there who believe so, but I doubt you could easily find one around the corner. Be careful who you believe in, even if they say they love you for who you are and not how you look, your money or something, remember to always check if this is true. DO NOT ask them frankly if they do especially if they just told you. If they tell you they love you and what you do is question it, that could hurt them, since they may be telling the truth and of course if you doubt them that'd hurt. 

Happiness come with a price and most of the time it ain't cheap, so if you got a dream, and you think you'll be happy once it comes true, or maybe if you think its the best for you, don't let it go then, life is too short for you to make yourself miserable. If you think you can't do something, I believe you probably can't since how could you succeed in something you don't even believe in. If you want to be happy be ready to sacrifice. Anyway success feels best when you've done your best for it.

Our greatest happiness does not depend on the condition of life in which chance has placed us, but is always the result of a good conscience, good health, occupation, and freedom in all just pursuits. - Thomas Jefferson 

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